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Tomkay, here is the honest truth, I really don't care if I meet them or not! It has never been about that! Although I know that is a big thing for him, he has told me things about his past girlfriend's and it didn't matter if they were the most gorgeous or the dumbest things, his parent's and siblings always had something to say about them! So, a lot of how this is playing out is about them...I know this in my heart and although I may be 42, I seriously look like I am in my early 30's and take very good care of myself! So no one ever guess' my age! I don't know, all I know is that I am at a crossroads and the fork in the road is about to take a turn that I have to take! I can't keep doing this and waiting to see if it will change! For 9 straight month's everything goes great and NO i never see this coming...5 week's things are great and wonderful and then to this! EVERY single time! It blow's me away!

As for your current situation (not that I am one to give advice, but I have alway's been better at it than actually taking it, LOL) I think that she is playing with you! That is terrible to know that you love her and of course she know's that and to not break it off completly (just as the one I am in) and let you go and start to heal isn't fair! You are like me and have to make a stand and what you want for the rest of your life!

We live in a world where "age" really isn't an issue any longer for both men and woman! When did it become so wrong to just fall in love and if everything is good and you can see a life with someone, why all the road-blocks???? Perplexing to say the least!





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