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Ok, that was much easier to follow than before, thanks!

I agree with Pendulum. I think it's kind of odd that edward would lose respect for you if he finds out you had a boyfriend before him. At your age, it's completely unrealistic for him to assume you never had a life before you met and started dating him. It's probably best then that he doesn't ask you about it because he sounds like he couldn't deal with it.

If I were you, I'd just act naturally and don't necessarily say anything about it. If someone else tells him and he gets mad, you can always just say Look I know you don't like talking about ex's so I didn't think it was necessary to talk to you about it. Since there's nothing going on with you and the ex anymore then it's really not a big deal. If you introduce them to each other you don't have to say, "This is my ex James." Just say, "This is James". End of story.

I find that sometimes it's best to share as few details as possible to prevent problems. And like I said, if someone else tells him just say that you know he doesn't like talking about it so you didn't bring it up, end of story. And he can't have it both ways. Either he deals with the fact you had a past before you met him and therefore realizing that you do have ex's out there in the world or he totally buries his head in the sand and pretends like you've never had a date in your entire life and he's your first ever boyfriend and first ever anything remotely resembling anything. Which is totally unrealistic but if he needs to live in Ya Ya Land to help him cope then I guess that's how it needs to be.





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