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Dig,
I'm in no way a relationship expert but I think you have some very valid concerns. It sounds to me like your gut is telling you something isnt right. I think you may have some trust and insecurity issues but hell, who doesnt?
I also think HE is failing in the boyfriend dept for the simple fact that he obviously goes out to bars without you, and is playing the communication failure card. Men dont "communicate" because they dont WANT to. Its easier for them if they dont. It sounds to me like he's putting his needs above yours and youre not comfortable with this.
What I would do is sit him down and tell him "look, these things are bothering me, theyre getting in the way of my/our happiness. If you love me, you will help me get past this." Dont beat around the bush just tell him straight up what it is you need to get past this. If you are unsure what this is, then that is what you need to work on first. What is missing? What makes you happy?
Anything that bugs you, let him know. Dont let them pile up as men are much like children and will overload. If YOU want to be happy, YOU have to take the initiative and talk about things that bother you. If he is unwilling to do this, then tell him you cant be with someone that doesnt care about your happiness.





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