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My boyfriend was just recently out of a 10 year relationship when we started seeing each other 7 months ago. I am crazy in love with him and he loves me and things between us are so good when we are together. He has two young children, one and four. His ex was living at her parents house with the kids until November. Since then My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time over there helping with the kids, every day after work he is there until around ten. Unless it is a day he has band practice. On the weekend he takes the kids during the day, for the first time I was invited to come along (which was amazing) I get along great with the older kid who I have spent more time with and just met the younger one for the first time. I am very open to my partner having kids because I myself have step parents and they are wonderful. My jealousy come from his relationship with his ex. When she moved into her new place he let her take EVERYTHING from his place, just shrugged his shoulders saying he could replace it. He spends a lot of time at her new house, he told me he would be to help them get settled, but thats also where he goes to take care of the kids, they never come here, I never get to be a part of it. Now that its getting close to christmas hes warning me that he will be spending a lot of time with them. The only time we get together already is after 10pm at night, and sometimes a day on the weekend. Says that he has to do Christmas things as a family. I understand Christmas Eve and Day but they are planning to do all the nice things leading up to Christmas together as well. Sometimes I feel like I'm just extra, I am waiting around for when he can spend time with me. I want to hang out with the kids, I have stressed that, but he still has to go to his ex. He tells me to be patient and give it time but doesn't really tell me what he thinks will be a solution. When I ask him what he wants he says he doesn't know. I am afraid I am being selfish, I love this man and he is so sweet, he cares so much, too much...he cares about everyone, and wants all the people in his life to be happy.

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