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[QUOTE=Tubular;4139125]So the evil thing you did was sleep with one of his friends?

That's usually the top of the evil list.

You two dated one month. That's only 4 weeks. Leave him alone and try to get back to your normal life. He is giving you a bunch of excuses which means he probably isn't that into you. I apologize for being so blunt, but I think that's what they are. A bunch of excuses meant to let you down easily. He is giving you a variation of the "it's not you, it's me" speech.

Besides, if this guy has suicidal tendencies he is not relationship material until he gets mentally healthy! Stay away...red flag.[/QUOTE]

I agree with Tubular with all my heart. I still don't know what the matter is with him (come on, sleeping with his shirt on with a girlfriend!), it could be nothing sexual, but in any case he is hiding it from you at the onset of your relationship. It can only get worse down the road.
[QUOTE=trystme;4145116]Something similar happened to me when I was young. This guy I met at a party and I really hit it off. There was awesome chemistry between us. We ended up going out plenty of times and then on the last date that we had we had sex. After that he never contacted me again. I finally broke down and called him myself. He told me that he couldn't date me anymore because our political views were so different. He said that it was important to his conservative family that he date someone conservative and that I was too liberal. I totally thought that was BS, but I just figured that he got what he wanted with the sex and that is why he was done with me. Later, by accident, I found out that he had a girlfriend the whole time and that he was cheating on her with me.[/QUOTE]

ugh that is awful!!!!!! im sorry you had that happen to you... its such a horrible feeling. coming to realize when you were really into someone, the feelings werent mutual & you were just being played. i know i shouldnt let one guy ruin it for me, but because of the last relationship had, and the incident that happen recently, makes me just not want a boyfriend. i know that there is a great guy i will meet, but when something happens like that its like maybe its fate telling me that im just not ready. i think everything happens for a reason, so i try to be positive about each experience. even though bad.
oh my god!!! This is even worse than I thought! What a jerk, and a crazy one... I'd call him something much worse if I was allowed to on here... did you find out from him or someone else that he had a girlfriend? I mean, suicide??? What kind of person is that manipulative? Couldn't he just have said he wasn't ready for a relationship or some kind of calm b.s. story? God...
[QUOTE=digmusic;4145606]oh my god!!! This is even worse than I thought! What a jerk, and a crazy one... I'd call him something much worse if I was allowed to on here... did you find out from him or someone else that he had a girlfriend? I mean, suicide??? What kind of person is that manipulative? Couldn't he just have said he wasn't ready for a relationship or some kind of calm b.s. story? God...[/QUOTE]

oh my gosh i know! HAHA i actually found out because i went to his networking site, just to see how he was you know since he claimed he was suicidal. he actually deleted me from this 2 weeks ago when he started to ignore me, so it was private. but anyways, for some reason when i got on from my phone, it showed his mood status and his relationship status which said "In a relationship with ... ..."

i was so angry because he straight up lied to me about being mentally ill. that is just, really not something to kid about. i shouldnt have, but i sent him a text and said i hoped his girlfriend knew how big of a douchebag he was, and that karma was a *****. i shouldnt of said anything but i did and then deleted everything. all his text messages, and his numbers etc. i got my answer, so i was finally able to erase him from my life!!!! you would think, it would be a lot easier to just say there was someone else, vs completely ignoring me, then lying about being unstable. most bizarre situation i have ever heard of, none the less, been a part of.

for some reason this guy really got to me. i have never been so worked up about someone blowing me off... i think it may have been because he seriously led me on like he wanted to seriously be with me. everything about him was "perfect" and i instantly fell for him. i have learned now, if everything is absolutely perfect, something must be wrong. unfortunately.





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