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My boyfriend of 5 years talks about cheating a lot... not about him cheating on me but just about cheating in general. He will mention things about his male coworkers cheating on their wives/girlfriends which I guess would be normal for him to talk about with me but it seems like everyone he knows cheats. He was training someone at work, the first time they ever met and he came home to tell me how this guy cheats on his long-term girlfriend. Isn't it kind of odd that this would come up in conversation upon meeting someone? He brings up stuff he heard on the radio or saw on tv about cheating too. Like the other day he said he heard on the radio that a certain website had advertisements up in the subway that read "Life is too short, have an affair". On average I would say the topic of cheating comes up every second to third day. I find it a bit strange...

Earlier today I wanted to check my emails and when I went to my email providers page my boyfriends account came up already logged in. I know I shouldn't have but there was a email from a coworker of his and I opened it. It was mostly just work related stuff but when I read the original message that my boyfriend had sent to him he mentioned how "good looking" his new manager is and that she "likes him" (I am guessing in a professional sense?). I know he got a new manager and that she is a woman and I did ask him if she was pretty and he said no... He also mentioned how he likes his new position at work because of all the "sexy girls". That really bothered me.... His coworker wrote something about how he should be a good boy with a little winky face....

I don't really know what to think... Part of me says this is just normal guy stuff but I am kind of bothered by the email and I am wondering what is with all this interest in the topic of infidelity. Am I reading too much into this? Whenever he talks about cheating, specifically about his friends and coworkers cheating he always makes a point to say that it is wrong, that if you don't want to be with somebody/want to be with someone else that you should end things instead of cheating but after reading the email and seeing him talk about his new hot manager and sexy female clients I am a little put off. He does sometimes talk about different clients and when one is particularly attractive to him I can tell by the way he tells the story and the goofy smile... I also heard that men are most likely to cheat at work... Do you think I should be concerned?





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