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I think its only human nature to feel jealous when your boyfriend goes out for dinner and drinks with two other women and tells you about what a "blast" they had. I trust my boyfriend completely, but I would definitely have some feelings of jealousy if I heard this. Unless these women were much older and/ or unattractive, I think its normal to have these feelings. My boyfriend completely trusts me too, but I don't think he would be too happy about me having "a blast" with two men out of town. It was most likely perfectly innocent, and they are probably platonic friends and co-workers. But I understand that it stings to hear about your man having these great experiences with other women.

He does sound like a very loving and committed guy, and I'm sure if you sat down like adults and talked calmly about this he would understand what your feelings. Let him know that its not a trust issue, because you do trust him, but you can't help but feel funny about the man you love spending so much time in work and social situations with another women. Hopefully by talking this through you can clear the air and come to some sort of agreement on how to proceed from here. I can't advise you what this agreement should be, that's up to you and him.

You could, as MSNik suggested, go out with her and your husband and get an idea of what kind of person she is and what kind of feelings she has for your husband. You may just find out that they they interact like siblings or good friends and this will allow you to rest easy. If, however, you get a sense that she has some ulterior motives then that's a whole other kettle of fish. The important thing is to go in with an open mind with no judgments or pre-conceived notions. If you go out to dinner and you spend the whole time looking for signs or behaviors then the exercise will be a waste and you'll drive yourself crazy!

Let us know what happens, and all the best :angel:

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