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Hey guys!

It's been a LONG time since I've posted on here. I know I've posted about this relationship couple of times. Well, we are officially broke up about a month ago. We were together for two years. He broke up with me because and I know it, he likes this girl. So let's get down to the nitty gritty!

So my ex and I relationship was on and off... we had our good times, we had our bad times. Our relationship just wasn't the same anymore and I do admit, I have been pushing him away. I don't really kiss him as much as I used too or sit on his lap or even said I love you back to him. Sometimes I just like my space and when I have a hard day at work, I just want to go and lay in bed. Anyways, I just want to keep it short and simple and straight to the point. We fought almost everyday on the week of Feb 8th. So we broke up officially on Thursday, Feb. 11... on my mom's birthday. Not only that, he broke up with me a couple days before Valentine's day and a month before our 2 year anniversary. Freakin' scandalous! Anyways, I also found out he took out "his friend" for valentine's day. The one who he had been lying about and saying that they're just friends and making ME feel guilty that I don't let him talk to his "gal friends".

So of course, it was so hard for me. I literally didn't eat, sleep, go to work, school, hang out with friends... I lock myself in the room and cried my eyes out. I just couldn't believe he would do this to me! What he's doing to me is EXACTLY was his ex did to him. He went through what I'm going through now but yet, why does he do it? I have brought up marriage and kids but for the future. Just to know if we have one you know and I think that scared him off. He said that he doesn't like that we act like an old married couple and that we're still young and shouldn't act like that. So in my theory, I think he broke up with me to be with this other girl, not because he's wants too but wants to date as much as people as he can. He's not really for a committed relationship.

But what I don't understand is that we've been together for two years. I lived with him and his parents for a year (too be closer to work and school) and he can just throw that all away? I also found out couple days ago that he already ask this friend of his to be his girlfriend... ALREADY. When we broke up, he told me that he's not ready to be in another relationship since he just got out of one. Low and behold, he has a girlfriend already? After one month of us broken up? I don't get it. My friends told me that he doesn't know how to cope with the break up and the only way is to date this friend of his so he doesn't have to deal with it. Is it true? Is she a rebound? He has been talking to her while he was with me. They used to go to parties together back in the day. I also saw somewhere that he's IN LOVE with her already. I'm just confused that he can just be with somebody that quick and "in love" that quick already after being in a 2 year relationship. Me and him been through a lot together and it's just amazing how this is all happen. I notice that he text her and phones her a lot and I know he does NOT like to text or talk on the phone that much. I read that they usually do that because they're used to talking to you all the time and like to share what the day has been but nobody to talk too so I guess he voids by doing that to her. I don't know. I know for a fact that I will NEVER be back with him again because of all the shyt he put me through. I've done so much for this guy, it's not even funny. I know people would think I'm so crazy for being with him but he did took my virginity that I had saved for 21 years!

So I just want to know... is he in a rebound relationship just to void the pain? I know he's not the type of person to be alone. He had told me that when we were friends. I remember when me and him went on a break (and he initiated) and he was crying over the phone and wanting me back because he didn't like being alone. I just want some answers. I'm just shock that he would rush in a relationship so quick. He deleted me off of facebook and everything so quick and I think he doesn't want me to see him and her together or something. Answers? Comments? Opinions?

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