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Lol, I'm still having a lot of trouble understanding why her picking you up and allowing you guys to stay at her house is such a huge problem? You're seriously hilarious, you just don't make any sense! Why would a person extending that kind of hospitality be a bad thing? I think when you get older and more mature, you'll learn to appreciate when people invite you over to hang out, it's what grown-ups do when they get tired of the bar scene. They bring a bottle of wine over to their friends' house and spend the evening hanging out and chatting or having a nice meal or playing board games or something like that. It's actually really relaxing and it's a nice way to spend an evening rather than having to deal with crowds at a bar and spending a ton of money on drinks.

Anyways, even after all of the stuff you've posted, I'm still waiting for you to give me your reasons for why you think he is cheating. You haven't provided any evidence. I really don't care what she has done in the past, but what's your bf done to make you so untrusting of him and so willing to dump him all of the sudden just because a friend of his is giving him rides when his car is broken down? Is it so difficult for you to comprehend the possibility that maybe she just wants to be friends and is therefore being helpful? Don't you ever help your friends when they need some help with something? Why does she automatically have to have an alterior motive when it's entirely possible and likely that she's just genuinely trying to be helpful? Why are you so willing to assume the worst about her - when you don't even know her - and your bf - who I suspect may have done something in the past to make you not trust him or something otherwise none of this makes any sense.

You really need to chill on the "I know I'm hot" thing, too. That kind of bragging seriously comes off as insecure. That's why people keep saying that. Women who are secure and confident and mature don't have to go around saying they're hot because they just know they are and they carry themselves in a confident way. It doesn't need to be said because it's already obvious by how the woman is perceived by people who meet her. I realize that you are still a teenager and a lot of this is lost on you, but you'll find when you get older that a lot more of this will make sense. I didn't get it either when I was your age. But sometime in my late 20s was when I finally understood what people meant when they said that stuff. It's something that will come with life experience.

In the meantime, I think you need to just chill and not make a mountain out of a molehill. I think this entire situation is seriously ridiculous and for you to get this upset over such a trivial matter is completely unnecessary. There's nothing going on here that I can see and unless your bf has cheated on you in the past and that's why you're so mistrusting of him, then there is absolutely no reason to believe he has cheated or is considering cheating on you.

If you want to handle this in a mature way, get to know this woman and be friends with her. You never know, she might be able to teach you a thing or two about life and you will get a new friend out of it. I'm sure if you got to know her, you'd find out she's probably just a nice person and her friendship is genuine. I have major doubts that she is after your bf and it's highly possible that the rumors about her may not even be true. I'd feel pretty stupid if I was making wild assumptions about someone based on rumors that ended up being false. I'd feel bad for jumping to conclusions about someone if that were the case.

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