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OMG, did you even read my most recent post? I'm asking you for proof. Where is it? What is the proof?

You've gone on and on about what you assume the "older woman" has done and what these friends of yours have done and what other women have done, but I haven't seen you post anything about anything that your bf has done that would lead you to the conclusion that he is cheating.

Like I said, I don't think there's anything going on behind your back. I believe that she is going through a divorce and looking for friends and that's why she is being nice to you and your bf because she wants some new friends while she is going through a divorce. You've never had to go through a divorce, you have zero idea how much it means to have friends around to lift your spirits when you feel like crap. It means a lot.

So until you post some kind of evidence of something specifically that your bf has done to make you think he is cheating, I think all of this is random drama that you're perpetuating for absolutely no reason at all.

And by the way, through the years I've always had more guy friends than female friends. One thing I've learned from my guy friends is that the guys who have integrity don't sleep around on their gf's or wives. They value their relationship enough and love their SO enough that they would never do that to them, no matter who the "other woman" is. It's called integrity and if you truly believe your bf has no integrity and that he would be capable of cheating on you, then you're probably right that you should break it off. But from what you keep posting about him, it sounds like he is really into you and the relationship so I have absolutely no idea where all of this fear is coming from that you assume he is going to cheat on you all of the sudden out of the blue for no reason. That seriously makes no sense at all and I wish you could see how ridiculous you're being.
[QUOTE=Kszan;4235112]OMG, did you even read my most recent post? I'm asking you for proof. Where is it? What is the proof?

You've gone on and on about what you assume the "older woman" has done and what these friends of yours have done and what other women have done, but I haven't seen you post anything about anything that your bf has done that would lead you to the conclusion that he is cheating.

Like I said, I don't think there's anything going on behind your back. I believe that she is going through a divorce and looking for friends and that's why she is being nice to you and your bf because she wants some new friends while she is going through a divorce. You've never had to go through a divorce, you have zero idea how much it means to have friends around to lift your spirits when you feel like crap. It means a lot.

So until you post some kind of evidence of something specifically that your bf has done to make you think he is cheating, I think all of this is random drama that you're perpetuating for absolutely no reason at all.

And by the way, through the years I've always had more guy friends than female friends. One thing I've learned from my guy friends is that the guys who have integrity don't sleep around on their gf's or wives. They value their relationship enough and love their SO enough that they would never do that to them, no matter who the "other woman" is. It's called integrity and if you truly believe your bf has no integrity and that he would be capable of cheating on you, then you're probably right that you should break it off. But from what you keep posting about him, it sounds like he is really into you and the relationship so I have absolutely no idea where all of this fear is coming from that you assume he is going to cheat on you all of the sudden out of the blue for no reason. That seriously makes no sense at all and I wish you could see how ridiculous you're being.[/QUOTE]

I hope you're right that she just wants friends, and thanks for talking to me like a person and giving me your opinion.





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