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Well, I can sort of see his point in a roundabout way, but you've been together for 3 years and are living together - his kids are old enough to know the score! This would not sit well with me at all. It's good that he told you in a non-confrontational way, but still I would be bristling about now. If you can't be yourself around his kids, then why you be demonstrative around his family, your family, your kids, friends? I could see it if his kids were 6; but they're all grown adults. I would think that your bf would be proud to be able to show them that men and women can be loving and caring and not cold and distant!

I don't know what to tell you, other than I guess I'd be talking to him and letting him know that you feel it is very good for his kids to see different ways of people interacting, and that it is acceptable to show loving behavior. Otherwise, he is just silently telling them that he is embarrassed or even ashamed of your relationship.





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