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She's giving you a chance. Be sure to not blow it with more jealous, obsessive behavior. This is a golden opportunity for you to learn an important lesson. When you get the urge to start in on her again (and you will, this won't disappear overnight), STOP! Remind yourself of the pain you are feeling right now, and of the pain you inflicted on this girl you love so much, and STOP! You CAN help it, all you have to do is close your mouth and refuse to let the jealousy out.
[QUOTE=Redneon82;4251520]She's giving you a chance. Be sure to not blow it with more jealous, obsessive behavior. This is a golden opportunity for you to learn an important lesson. When you get the urge to start in on her again (and you will, this won't disappear overnight), STOP! Remind yourself of the pain you are feeling right now, and of the pain you inflicted on this girl you love so much, and STOP! You CAN help it, all you have to do is close your mouth and refuse to let the jealousy out.[/QUOTE]

I feel very lucky to be given this last chance. I am determined to get past this stupid obsession of mine. It's not worth risking the relationship over it, she's just too damn important to me.

Thank you for your input.
I went through this with my fiancee... i did catch her out a few times lying about things like that... but if you love her, does her past really matter? my girl had webcam friends (lets just say) and i told her if she loves me that much then it will stop... and it has... just talk to her one night and tell her how you feel... she has had 5 and shes 17... but she was my first... i felt odd about it... dont listen to all the hear say stuff, most people come across jealous and that is probably the main factor of her friend... as for your girlfriend denying that it was her that went with the druggie... it maybe a touchy subject and a bad experience... you must have had bad experiences that you dont want to talk about... if you love her then you will let it go... i dont mean that in a bad way mate... if you want the relationship to work then put it all behind you like your girlfriend has put it behind her.





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