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Right again. I admit this isn't what he had in store when we got married at 20. Nor was what he had in mind was what I particularly wanted to settle for. He does feel taken for granted in the midst of me trying to make ends meet. Sometimes I wonder if I would be better off like I said and let it all go belly up and pretend to be the person I was when we got married, just beginning to dream. Now the grown up in me knows there is no turning back. The hardest part of all this is that he is not wrong for being ther person he is and I am equally not wrong. I will admit I have become superficial liking beach vacations and taking shopping sprees. These are not things that I grew up with but that I really enjoy. I really like the fact that we can take a vacation every year somewhere, anywhere ( well not abroad). And he seems equally safisied being there.
As far as money, means very little to me right now. I could walk away from what I have. I would gladly split it 50/50 including 401K. No big deal. I just can't get past the fact that it is okay for me to be the soul supporter and how the heck and I supposed to relax and not think about the bills. Guess I am the father figure you talk about in reverse and ya know I really don't want to be here.

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