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So about a year ago I formed a pretty good relationship with my boss. Our relationship moved from a professional one to a personal one and before I new it I found myself hanging out at her house on a regular basis. I quickly made friends with her boyfriend and all of their friends, and now I have made my spot in their social circle. The thing is everyone is dramatically older than me, im 20, my boss is 26, her boyfriend is 32, their friends range from 24 and up. This age difference never was much of an issue. If we were going to party or drink it was usually at her place, and no one seemed to put much of a concern on my age. As we all hung out together I and one of her friends began having a thing for each other. One night we ended up making out and things escalated from there. Now about once a week I find myself staying the night over at this girls place, we never have sex, but we usually just make out and cuddle, maybe watch a movie or whatever, and than fall asleep. We have talked about the idea of being a couple, but she is turned away by the idea because there is a four year difference between us. On more than one occasion she has said to me that she wants to stop this and that it is just too weird for her, but within a week or so I get a drunken phone call from her asking for me to come over, and than things are fine again. She genuinely likes me and has told me that if I was her age we would be together. We have a lot of fun together. I am just tired of being her yo-yo, constantly being pushed away and pulled back in. I really do like her, and if she was willing, I would be down to try and make the relationship work. i dont look at the age difference as that much of a big deal, but I still understand the social pressures she must get from friends and what not considering that culturally its expected for the guy to be older.

Should I allow her to keep doing this back and fourth shit until she makes up her mind. Or should I just call it quits next time she pulls another one of these "take a break" stunts and tell her to give me a call once she has made a final decision. Or am I just being a total tool.

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