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I think 22 is just too young to be thinking in terms of life long commitment. There is study after study that shows that marriages between people 24 or younger fail at such an alarming rate. You have so much growing and maturing to do, you are not even close to being the person you will be when you are 30.

You said it yourself, you know you don't want to spend the rest of your life in the situation you are in now. I think it's a mistake to stay with someone because you're afraid to hurt them. I hesitated dumping someone I knew I should have for fear of hurting him, so I stayed, and fell deeper and got more deeply involved, then he dumped me, quickly, unceremoniously, with a bunch of lies and without one single thought as to my heart or my feelings. Don't ever worry about breaking a guy's heart, especially if he's already broken up with you. He's a big boy, he'll get over it. And even if he doesn't, that's not your problem. If it's not right, if it's more aggravation and work and stress and sadness than healthy, mature partnership, elevating support and companionship, then your gut is telling you what to do. You just need to listen to it.

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