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my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years now, and for the past year and a half his personality changes so dramatically that its hard to really know who he is. He has an extremely bad temper and almost always ends up yelling, swearing and punching walls etc. I have never been the type of person to put up with someone with such a horrible attitude but when hes not having mood swings and being grumpy he is really really good to me. I am now 8 months pregnant with him and i know he is very excited for the new baby and i know he loves me a lot but i am scared about his temper and mixed emotions around the baby. I have never been able to leave him throughout this relationship, i feel like im all he has and i think he thinks im the only one who understands him. I love him dearly and I have tried to get him help and he has agreed to go to counselling but I feel like it wont help him. I feel like i cant be myself or stand up for myself when we fight because i dont want him to freak out. Its not only behavioural problems, his emotions are everywhere all the time. When hes mad he tells me that he hates me that he doesnt want to be with me and really mean things that hurt me a lot. I feel like if i dont talk to him when hes mad he wont calm down. I feel like i need to sit with him and calm him down and then he finally calms down and appologizes. I know this relationship is extremely unhealthy but we love eachother SO MUCH. How do i deal with him? How can he resolve his temper for our families sake? Please advice appreciated and much needed!!!! Thanks.

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