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Re: What to think?
Jan 9, 2003


are ya sure you're not talking about a town in pennsylvania?? i swear that's what it's like here.... buncha guys that don't care about that kind of stuff.... anyway, here's my take on the situation.... i say.... find a way to be able to be "free" of him some of the times.... make stuff up if you have to to get to go out with friends... and don't tell him where you'll be... ( i know this sounds sneaky... but, you're NOT bf/gf.... and you don't want all of your time manipulated by him.)... the reason i suggest this... is cause, well,.. you still want to hang out with him... HOWEVER.. i imagine you want to leave other possiblities open..... in meeting someone else.... i had dated a guy who was 10 yrs older than i am..... anyway, he was good looking, had a good career, was good in bed, loved his daughter very much, took me out, paid ALL the time... blahblahblah... point is.. although i was attracted to him... and he made me laugh.... "something" wasn't there.... so, although i didn't want to lose our "dating" ... i would still hang out with him..... not make it serious.... and go do other things too..... for the time being... it worked for both of us..... i'm now in a relationship for the past year...where i'm totally head over heels in love .... he's 5 yrs younger than me though... anyway, point is.... had i "settled" and allowed our relationship... or whatever it was we had to be the only thing i could do all the time... i wouldn't have met my fiancee..... the other guy and i are still very good friends... even hang out every now and then..... and has met my fiancee....

sometimes things left this way are ok.... if its what you want and what he wants... why not?? it starts to be a problem when it's not ok.....

just my 2 cents





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