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To begin, I am 24 yrs old, my bf is 25. I have been with my bf for almost a year and a half. Before me he had dated his last gf for 4 years who is 4 years older than him. They broke up 6 months before we starting dating.

My bf's best friends have a band that is splitting up, and they are having a last show in 2 weeks. Apparently this is his ex gf's favorite band, and he told me that she will probably be there...and i'm mature enough to handle that.

Well, yesterday she sent him an e-mail saying that with the show coming up she has been thinking a lot about him, and wanted to get together with him to discuss some things that she needs closure on. He agreed to meet with her for dinner rather than talk on the phone.

That really upset me, and I told him that I would be much more comfortable with the whole situation if he called her rather than met with her because I know that she is going to tell him that she loves him..blah, blah, blah! He said that he was upset that I don't trust him enough to do this, but that he would call her instead, and asked me if he can call her in another room from where I will be.

I just feel like she's 29 yrs old, and that she should be able to get over it without him. She also knows that we are dating (i've never met her), so I think that it's really lame of her to keep writing him.

He told me that he wanted to meet with her for a 2 reasons:
1. Becasue she's not a bad person, and that he wants to help her get past this and move on with her life.
2. So that we don't have to worry about an awkward situation if we ever do bump into her.

I just feel like it's been 2 years since they broke up, and that i'm being put in a really bad position here. I feel like he shouldn't give her the time of day...2 years later!

I'd appreciate any advise on this one. I am completely confused on how I should react to this whole situation. Why does he still care? Is that fair when you are in another serious relationship?

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