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Billy...being a "crier" myself, I can tell you that the MAIN reason I have cried in a relationship is because my significant other was not responsive to my needs. If I am trying to get out my feelings and to talk about what the issue is, the LAST thing I need is for my guy to tell me that me crying is "annoying." I had this happen a few weeks ago...I tried talking to my boyfriend about something and he got extremely unresponsive and defensive. I started crying, and he had the nerve to tell me that my crying was annoying and that he doesn't like dating me when I cry. Do guys honestly think that saying something like that will make us think "oh okay, I'll stop crying so I'm not annoying you!" Instead, it makes us feel foolish for trying to communicate our feelings and even worse about the situation.

I already feel horrible about not being able to control my emotions. The last thing I need is for my boyfriend to tell me how annoying it is and how he doesn't like being around me when I do it. What would HELP the situation was for him to be more responsive in the first place and to be open with communication before I get frustrated in the first place. It's hard not to cry when you feel like you are being ignored and that the most important person in your life doesn't care what you are trying to say.

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