It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....

Relationship Health Message Board

Relationship Health Board Index

I agree with all of the above. I have a suggestion that was made on another thread...a poster said that after their break-up, they made a list of all the reasons WHY they broke up with that person. Then whenever they were waxing nostalgic about the relationship or feeling down about the breakup they would bring out the list and read it and it would remind them why they broke up in the first place.

If I were you, I would get started on this list. But keep it out of sight of your husband, unless you want to have to explain all of this to him (I wouldn't!) Tuck it into your purse or something so you can take it out and remind yourself of all your ex's bad qualities. You might also do well to make a list of all your husband's wonderful qualities to remind you of why you married him.

Sure, sometimes people get infatuated with the idea of having a clandestine affair, but if that's what you're looking for, do some role playing with your husband. Don't throw the vows you made to him away by getting back with someone who sounds like he was very bad for you.

Please don't risk your marriage. Wonderful men seem to be hard to come by. I have a wonderful man, myself, and I would never, for an instant, think of risking my relationship with him for a meaningless fling.

I wish you luck.

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 07:00 PM.

© 2022 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!