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Aug 11, 2003
Sorry if this is a long post but I'm really struggling here. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. She seems like the sweetest human being in the world and I truly love her. I was in relationship in which I was lied to and cheated on. I'm fearing old fears are reapearing.

The thing is for 2 months I've been feeling like there is something fishy going on. It's weird because my girlfriend rarely goes out and stuff but I still feel like maybe she could be cheating on me or lying to me. This seems even harder to grap when I know she was cheated on by her ex and t hurted pretty badly.

It's mostly small stuff like I sometimes call her at her house but it rings busy for a long time but she says nobody was on the phone (even if she's all alone) it was off the hooked. Or she often leaves like an hour and a half earlier before her shifts starts. She dresses herself more sexy when going to work than when she's seeing me. Makeup, hair, etc. I went to see her at work a couple of times and she was cool except when I left it happened two times that she was looking bummed out and talking to a co-worker and it felt like they were talking about me. She bought herself some new shirts this week which she only wears at work. The shirts are thight and she wears them with a push-up bra.

Today I call her at home, and her brother answered the phone and I asked him if she's there and with a worried tone, he asks me: she wasn't supposed to come and pick you up? Half and hour later she knocks at my door with a gift and says she was out going to get something that her brother ask her to go get. Why the hell would her brother ask me that if he knew where she was ?

We've talked about this quite a number of times and she was hurted that I couldn't trust her as much. Sometimes she broked down and cried. I often feel like she couldn't do something like that but sometimes I panic. I'm naturally very paranoid. I don't have the means avalaible to "investigate her". We work different shifts and if I try to outsmart her and I doubt she's telling the truth she always seem so sincere and beleivable. I need a way to get out of this. Thank you.

[This message has been edited by fro54 (edited 08-11-2003).]

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