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ljay, I was wondering the same thing. Anyone, years later down the road, find that staying was best and that this itch to find more passion and meaning was just a passing phase? I found it was so deep in my case that I really wonder if it would have passed eventually or if I'd just have become hardened and resentful of everything I wanted to do and needed, but neglected out of a lack of courage and a commitment to the word commitment.

I had to make the decision if living with regrets was worth keeping to a twenty-year-old promise that had a lot of other broken pieces along the way anyhow. I chose not to live with regrets. Life is just too short and it wasn't fair to tie someone else up in a marriage that was more a sister-brother relationship by that point. He found passion too, so I think we were all much better off.

[This message has been edited by poreoilyme (edited 09-09-2003).]





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