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Thank u all for replying .
chinchilla , I totally agree with u.
But I should confess somethings :
1. One of the reasons I want him so much , is that he was ALWAYS complimenting on me in striking and breathtaking words (he is no doubt a poet)"AND" ALSO he talked about what other guys in the university think or say about me , and that how famous I've been among them and so and so....you know, I think I am self confident enough , but hearing those SHOCKING words from a handsome guy is not what every girl could ignore!
when he contacted me after that date , he told me "U can never even imagine what u've done to me in these 26! days , just pray and pray that God forgive u!!"

2.About his gf , I know she likes him so much , cuz she have been trying to contact me SEVERAL times with anonymous Yahoo id's . She had seen my ID in his friendlist (he had told her I'm a formal friend of his) and then she started asking about me from my classmates and searching for a photo of me. Once , she chatted with me with a male ID and asked me again and again if I liked any guy in the uni ,and I said no . She said :"u really don't know how much happy u made me!" ("HE" has told me all these ,cuz she had told him about her investigations! about me).
Anyway , I don't think THEIR relationship depends on OUR relationship any more ,cuz once he's cheated on her ,it won't work regardless my presence.
3. My main concern is that after about 1 month , does he still likes me? ... will things like that happen again? .... to mention , it was not his first time! that changed 180 degrees . once when he was in Europe ,SUDDENLY he left me a message and told that he agrees with me that we don't have a chance! (yes , i told him that many times but just b/c of his gf) , but after then he said 100 times that he was regretful and he had told this because "I showed no JEALOUSY! towards other girls if they like him!!!!" (I don't remember any ,except his gf) and it made him SO DEPPRESSED!

I am confused , b/c I don't know if he is too "boyish" and naive (as i feel) or he is a jerk!?
He is handsome ,rich ,fun ,and has never touched me (just gazing like crazy), so I don't know WHY ON EARTH he might have told me lies about liking me?!!!
When I ADVISED him to stay with his gf , he told me he should have told me LIES in order to have me , not to be so HONEST! , and that leaving his gf suddenly is not moral.
I honestly don't care about his having a gf , cuz I don't think about him for my future (he's a cheater anyway)..."SO" ,1.Is it ok to stay with a guy just for hearing sweet words and having fun? .... 2.Is it possible that he rejects being my friend (he became MAD when i told him he wants me for sex , and he keeps ignoring me in the uni) ? I am NOT looking for a relationship right now , but I'm SURE I won't find a guy as sweet as him ANY MORE!







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