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[QUOTE=sunnyrise;4750560]Hi Hangin,

I feel sorry for you and more sorry for your son. I read your past posts and how very sad that you divorced your son's father when your son was very young though for good reasons (how your ex-husband abused you, etc.). I'm sorry he passed away.

It seems like you can't have a healthy relationship with any man thus I am beginning to think that your son is a "replacement" husband, boyfriend, etc. and that you will never let him go or let him grow up because he is all you have. The more control you have over your son the better you feel.

But what about your son? You mentioned that he is upset with you and I think that is what is really bothering you because that means your son is starting to rebel against you which is the last thing in the world you want. You do NOT want to lose the control you have over him.

I don't know what advice to give to you.. I feel sorry for both of you but more sorry for your son who was an innocent victim of a bad relationship.

I wish you both the best, I truly do..
You probably also noticed that I lost my own sweet mother two years ago too.
Thank you for the kind words.

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