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Beyond Confused!
May 5, 2011
So here is my situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past almost 10 months and honestly I'm starting to get to the end of my rope and I have no clue what to do about it. I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world but recently and not so recently I feel we've just been so different and that's not even the half of it. There's two sides to my boyfriend, one side is very easy going and laid back and the other is very stern and serious. I feel there is almost nothing I can ever do right, whether it's just simply him asking me to clean something he always finds something I did wrong and he has no problem making me aware of it. Sometimes he yells at me and says I have no common sense and others he'll just say to me he thinks I act retarded sometimes. Also there's an issue with me driving. My boyfriend lives almost an hour away from me and I am always the only one who drives to see the other. He says he doesn't like driving and that my house is gloomy and he feels uncomfortable. Another issue is the future. I'm a girl and I like to think about the future, whenever I ask him about the future he refuses to talk about it and basically shuns everything I say. I'll ask him if he sees me in his future and he'll say there's no way to know since we haven't even been dating for a year yet. I don't know what to do, I care about him more than anything and I do absolutely everything for him and I feel that it wouldn't matter to him if I were here or not because honestly when I ask him if he could try to be nicer or change for me he simply says nope and that's how he is. I am honestly just so confused. I want to be able to have fun with him and go places and he simply just says he doesn't see the point in spending money on a vacation when our lives aren't stressful enough, I can barely get him to go to the movies with me without me begging. He is a great guy and he has even admitted that he has trouble showing his emotions, I'm just stuck, I don't know what the right thing to do is. Help please!

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