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He's really low to do that to you when you are pregnant. The girlfriend "needs" him? How about his pregnant wife needing him? You're especially vulnerable being pregnant, and he goes and does this. What a coward. Before you even said it seemed like a mid life crisis, that's exactly what I was thinking. I highly doubt the girl will stay with him in the long run because of the age difference, but it doesn't matter, because I think the charges on your credit card are enough reason to kick him to the curb. You don't need that kind of stress in your life right now.
He probably told her you were cheating on him, that you "don't understand" him, and that you two don't sleep together (hard to convince when you're pregnant, but he probably said it's not his). Those are the standard things married men say to other women to convince them to have an affair with them. My friend's husband had an affair and he told the other woman all those things, even though they weren't true.

Forget about her, she's not your problem. HE is. Get an attorney ASAP, make sure the attorney knows he is spending money from your joint account on his girlfriend, and get some protection financially so he can't spend all the money on motel rooms and trinkets for his plaything. Then only communicate with him through your attorney.

I'm sorry this is happening to you. People can be such fools sometimes, can't they?
[QUOTE=ninamarc;4767316]Bea, I think it also depends on the husband to resist the temptation. There are always temptation around - men or women out there. It is up to the couple to hold the marriage or commitment. If one partner is not loyal, the boat is shaken. There will always be someone out there to have fun with.

Nina[/QUOTE]

That is not my point...my point is there seems to always be some woman trying to rock the boat. I'm not saying that a man will cheat. For instance, in my first marriage there was this woman that constantly prank called me and would tell me my husband was cheating on me or act like she was his girlfriend. Then in my marriage now, there was this woman that just would not stop calling, no matter how stern my husband would be and how angry he was when he told her to stop calling and would hang up on her...sooner or later, she would call again. Finally after about 3 years of this, she just kind of went away. She would call and tell him she loved him and stuff like that. This was some crazy woman he knew like 30 years ago...she is literally crazy though come to find out. AND don't even get me started on the EX gf! UGH!:dizzy:





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