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I think you answered your own question in ya thread lol...jealous and plain mean. Hes trying to knock you down so you dont go anywhere and feel like you can't get better than him or that no one will like you and you may end up believing it one day if ya dont get rid of him. He is a bully and he is feeling insecure within himself so he takes it out on you.

My question is ....why havnt you left this idiot by now? He sounds horrible.

You deserve much better , and even if you are old (i dont know ya age) then so what? every human being gets old and doesnt mean ya ugly or not worthy of love respect and you should do what you damn well want if you wanna wear make up you go for it girl. Likes hes mr perfect and worlds most gorgeous amazing person his personality and the way he treats a woman is vile. Hes also trying to emotionally control you to make you feel bad and stop doing or dressing how you want.

If you dont mind i'd like to share abit of my experience with you. My ex boyfriend was a nasty jealous bully and like your boyfriend does , he put me down constantly , controlled me very badly , even controlled my own money and i wasnt even allowed to give my own dog a treat after walkies he was that controlling couldnt work or goto college or anything, couldnt have friends rarely saw my own family. I spent my life thinking it was my fault the time i was with him for 2 whole years i was terrified of him, letting him get away with it, because i loved him and i tried everything in my power to get him to love me but instead he was abusive cruel, manipulative controlling and he totally and i mean totally brain washed me, he bullied me into an abortion and laughed when i was heartbroken and in serious pain he would say ''boo hoo'' and laugh at me. I was so messed and still am a little as the damage was so severe. I ended up writing a book on my whole life again. because if i said i did something or said something or felt this feeling he would brain wash me into believeing that i didnt feel that way i didnt do that i didnt say this that. I wrote a book and i did that to RE DISCOVERED who i really am , to find my lost self identity. he cheated on me over and over aswell and was so paranoid when he came to my home he would look at any piece of paper lying around to check no mens numbers was on it , he wanted to see who texted me who called etc...it was a total nightmare. The list goes on about my horrific experience and believe it or not im still messed up now but not as bad. i put my current boyfriend through hell and was on this board blaming him when infact i was so mentally damaged from my experienced that it was my behaviour that needed to change and with therapy i did.

My advice.......get out of there soon as possible and NEVER look back and get some counselling or therapy to help you rebuild your lost confidence and self esteem.

Its true what larrylous mom said.....you will lose yourself that you wont know who you are anymore. ive been there aswell. leave him its gonna get worse. if you put up and shut up , it gets worse , if you shut them up and put them behind you your free of pain and this idiot.

Sorry i know i have wrote alot but just wanted to say something else hope ya dont mind.

People who are.... stick thin, medium, fat, morbidly obese, young, middle aged, old, or very old, have learning diffacults, black white mixed any race religion or appearance etc.....all deserve to be loved and respected by people who chose to be with them or be around them like a friend etc.....

Your boyfriend is acting like you are scum and not worthy when he says your ugly , fat and old. But so what if you are old or fat? not saying you are but that doesnt mean your not entitled to been loved and cared for and be respected.

Tell him this , and as above suggested ask him questions like why you with me then? etc........hes just jealous and insecure and a waste of time.
I agree with all these women have said. I was told how a man treats his mom is a good indicator of how he treats his girlfriend or wife, and sometimes the way a man's father treats his wife is an indicator of how your husband or boyfriend will treat you. My ex-husband's father yelled at his wife in anger and blame all the time and so did my ex-husband. There is a pattern they learn from and some never change. They are intimidators, bullies, controlling and manipulative. I left after 10 years and 3 sons. What a mistake having children with him. I'm glad I have my sons and got out early while they were little. I want them to treat women with respect and love. Don't waste your time with someone who treats you abusively and acts toxic towards you. You are worth more. Best wishes.





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