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Re: Angry boyfriend
Jul 19, 2011
I agree with Rose on this one. I think IF he really is commited to change, it will take months, maybe even years, for him to really get a handle on things and learn how to be a better person. If it really is going to happen at all, it's not going to happen overnight. To think that he can go to a few counseling sessions and in a few weeks or a couple of months you two can be back together and all will be on the road to happiness, that just isn't realistic. Especially with the kind of problems you described. I hope he does get his act together someday. But I think you really need to let it go and get on with your life and let him get on with his.

I think what you should do right now is really pay attention to how it feels to be able to go back on your social networking profile, talk to your friends again, to be able to go out when you want, where you want, with whom you want, wearing what you want. Take some time to really soak up how it feels to have that freedom back. Think about how much of it you really gave up, and for what. I think you need to work on you right now. Making sure no one will ever be able to do that to you again. You need to do some changing as well, and those changes won't happen overnight, either.

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