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Just wanted to give an update on my situation. I feel great! I am happy, confident, having fun, loving my life! I'm really surprised but it really took me only 2 weeks to completely get over my ex. I cried a little, I had a few bad days/nights, but barely. That really tells me that I was so over the relationship before it ended! I didn't love him. He made me cry all the time, made me feel worthless and unwanted and ignored. No girl should ever have to feel like that! I am so much happier without him. I feel like I've gotten myself back... the self that I lost when I was with him. He brought me down constantly. I don't cry anymore, I smile and laugh. I'm not worried about him or what he's doing, I couldn't care less. I'm spending time with my friends and meeting new people. I'm probably moving to a different city and I'm job searching (and had a great interview and am hoping to get a job offer soon!). I'm focusing on myself, my career, my friendships and moving. I'm doing what I want to do, and I'm only worried about me. I can do whatever I want to do now! I can be happy and free. I can find love again, a true love. The kind of love that won't make me feel insecure, won't make me cry or walk around depressed. I've been hearing lots of stories lately about different things that guys have done for their gf's/wives, and I've been jealous. I never had that with my ex. He wasn't sweet. I've had sweet boyfriends before, and it's something I want again. I want a guy that thinks about me, that cares for me and about me, that does sweet little things for me... because I do them too. My ex was so incredibly self-centered that it was always about him, it will always be about him. I couldn't handle that. I'm so excited at the prospect of actually finding real love and being happy with someone. I wasn't happy most of the time with my ex, I faked it and lied to myself. He was so wrong for me and bad for me. I lost myself being with him, and now I'm finding myself again. By the time I meet a guy I want to be with, I'll be whole again, I'll be my happy self again, and he'll appreciate it.

I felt really lost for a while. I was scared. I don't feel lost anymore. I'm excited that my life is going to be whatever I make of it. I told a friend the other day that if I knew it was going to be like this, I would've left my ex long ago. I was too scared to leave... too scared for what the future would hold for me. Had I known I was going to be ok... better than ok, actually, I wouldn't have stayed for as long as I did. I hope other people can read this and realize that if you're in a relationship that's not right or one that's bad for you, YOU WILL BE OKAY! You will be better and happier. It's so hard to leave the comfort of relationships, but it's not as scary and sad as you think it will be. I say this after every broken relationship, but really, breaking up with my ex was the best thing to ever happen to me. I deserve SO much better! My ex isn't the guy I thought he was, nor is he the guy I hoped/thought he could be. He never will be, and it's not my problem anymore, and that feels SO good!

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