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[QUOTE=littlelady2011;4816707]I've been with my bf for a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces but I don't receive this back . I live with him and he says he loves me once that's because I was going to walk out . He doesn't want to hug and I've started working nights and tonight was my only night off and he asked to go out with his friends so I txted him saying well if u think seein your best friends more important then seeing gf do it . But he came home told me to come home so I did . And now I'm upstairs on my own in tears because I feel lonely x[/QUOTE]

Try to think this one...

Lonely is a situation when you are not comfortable with yourself.

Love is not demanding, Love doesn't mean have to have it. It means, support, care, communication, honest, trust, respect.

Relationship is actually as easy as we want it to be, it is also simple, the one who make it complicated is only ourselves.

Happiness is not because somebody else, but it is indeed because our self-love. The term of "He make me happy" is something like he did sth i hope he did (means it's for myself), Happy also mean you are comfortable with yourself.

why don't you try to love yourself more, having your time, don't analyzing, don't expect... coz everything will come along while you expect the least..

The only way to make him respect you more is have your own time, so he knows that you also have your life.. and both of you are human that also have feeling, respect and open communication is important..

The most important thing in relationship is yourself. You have to know what do you want first then decide something, when you feel blur, then take sometime, do something love yourself more...

The last thing is very easy, can you take it and be patient or not? do you have so much trust in your relationship or not? If you can live with it then go on.. move on but with better manner (everyone can make a mistake), but if you can't live with it, you know the answer better talk to him, compromise discuss it together..and see if both of you are trying to work it out together or not, or it is just him, or it is just you? make a deal.. talk, dear.. talk...
guys doesn't know what do you want, what do you think, coz he is a guy! plus if you doesn't know what you want, then how does he know what you want? If everything have fall down, it's time to admit and accept it. Especially when you can't live with it, you know the answer.

Why people tend to force sth and make it complicated while actually it can be simple? (it doesn't mean a break up, but change the way we are thinking and our attitude)

There are some quotes:

“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.” Maya Angelou quotes

"If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want." ~Oscar Wilde

Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful. ~Buddha

>>> For the last one.. at least he ask you to come home, doesn't he? :) If you don't like it.. then talk to him..





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