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Only you can know for sure if this incident is enough for you to decide to commit to your girlfriend. If yolu find wanting other women again, perhaps therapy might help. I mean, the "big girl" factor is not the most problematic part, I think. Lots of men have trouble being faithful to one woman for many many different reasons. But at the end of the day, I really think it's a choice. You either choose to stop looking and be satisfied with what you've found, or you don't.

I do you think need to get tested. Unfortunately, some diseases like HIV and herpes have an incubation period of anywhere from 6 months to two years. That's why 1 out of every 4 American adults has herpes. It's so easy to pass along, and it takes so long to find out you even have it. Unfortunately it can also be very painful, and it's incurable. And in the future, I think you need to work on, if I may be blunt, just manning up and taking responsibility. i.e. if you don't want to cheat with a certain girl, don't hurt her by being cruel so she'll never want to sleep with you. You tell her, thanks but no thanks, I'm in love with a wonderful woman and I don't want to mess it up, so you can't sleep with her. Take responsibility for the choices you make and how they affect your life, and the lives of the people around you.

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