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I met my girlfriend in first year of university. We started dating halfway through first year and continued dating for almost 4 years now. The summer of first year she went to a foreign country and made out with some guy. She was really sorry about it and it's all forgiven and forgotten. We lived together for the next three years while going to university. There were a couple of other instances where she got drunk and danced with other guys at clubs when I wasn't there. I was really pissed and we had many long talks about it.

Half a year ago we both graduated from our programs. I got a job and she got into a masters program far away. We decided to do long distance since we were confident enough in our relationship.

Two weeks ago she told me she cooked dinner, saw a movie at her house, and pretty much hung out all day with a guy from my program in university that she had hooked up with before we started dating. This guy is very good looking, charming and smart... she thinks so as well. I was pretty pissed and thought that this was totally inappropriate. She agreed and said she was sorry. This weekend she had told me that she was planning to go to a restaurant with a bunch of friends. I didn't really think much about it. However. later when I asked her about it, it turns out that it was just her and that same guy going out to a restaurant and then watching a movie at her house. I was really pissed because we had talked about things like this so many times. I just ended the Skype call because I just didn't want to hear any of it. I felt mocked by her asking me if I was mad.

Its kind of sad to say but she is pretty much my only friend that I talk to regularly. I just tend to work a lot and go online on my spare time. I don't know what to do. I've talked about stuff like this 100's of times with her.
[QUOTE=onlyaguy;4862553]This weekend she had told me that she was planning to go to a restaurant with a bunch of friends. I didn't really think much about it. However. later when I asked her about it, it turns out that it was just her and that same guy going out to a restaurant and then watching a movie at her house...[/QUOTE]



Hi

I'm going by what you wrote ~

What do you think it means? That she was faithful, or fooling around?

It's what you think that matters. If you don't think that is cheating why were you angry?

In my own opinion, I can understand forgiving that behavior in the beginning of a new relationship, if the behavior changed and never happened again. But even if I forgave a second time, I would break it off. That isn't the kind of thing I am willing to subject my life to. That's just me.





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