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I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months. It wasn't a very clean start, she had a boyfriend of 6 years at the time we began dating. She broke up with him as soon as we started seeing each other and for the first 4-5 months it was nothing but the most exciting relationship any one could be in. We knew each other since high school and clicked like no other, good looking couple, great couple all around. Then some issues started to arise such as her not being too comfortable with my friends, she developed some depression over the fact that she just moved back home from college where she spent 2 years in a different state. This lead to some frustration, on top of all of this she began working long hours and we ended up having a couple of big heated arguments. She even ended up calling her ex, which then she squared away by apologizing to both of us for going through this sort of rough time in her life.
Then everything seemed to have gone back on track to some extent, things were working out and right before our exotic getaway we got into another heated argument. We kind of talk about it a day or so later and decided to go on a vacation anyway. Vacation doesn't go as planned, she felt sick and left a day early. When we got back home she found out that she's pregnant. We've had a lot of issues with having horrible luck, while it doesn't bother me much, it is getting to her head that while with me for some reason everything goes wrong which is generally not even the case. I've been nothing but extremely nice to this girl, wanted to marry her, all we ever talked about is how much we love each other and how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together. That all came to an abrupt end, she's frustrated, she's been not feeling well even before pregnancy for couple of months, things don't seem the same etc etc. and finally she asked that she wants to take a break without putting any restrictions on the break. She says she doesn't want to date anyone, just to get her life together as since moving back she hasn't had a chance to get it together. I'm not sure what I should do at this point, I love her dearly and would do anything to make it work, but I feel like being nice has done nothing but hurt me. She says she feels empty, as if she was a zombie, that she needs to work on herself. What I'm afraid of is her trying to reunite with her ex, they've broken up multiple times now and dated other people, there's no future there, the only thing they have left between them is the 6 years of on/off dating/friendship. If that were to happen it would end any feelings I'd have for her even if she tried to come back to me at a later time. I don't know what I should do or if there's anything I can do to make this work, should i just let go and let faith decide?





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