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Greetings...

I just got engaged this past Christmas day. I have been dating my girl for the last 5 years(4 1/2 exclusively). Not once in my time together with her have I EVER said F you in an argument, nor have I ever cursed AT her. You might say, good for you, so what.. BUT...
Prior to meeting my fiancee, I had 2 other serious relationships. Each about 5 years. In my other relationships WE would yell and or curse at each other without thinking twice, letting our bad temper get the best of us. We would fight about anything! I thought this was "normal", just passionate love. I was waaay wrong!! When I met my fiancee, I had just got out of a serious relationship. We were introduced through mutual friends, she would come to my apartment and we would hang out n watch movies or play video games, just friends. She was perfect girlfriend material in every way but one, she was a little pudge. I have always gone for thick girls, but this girl was just a little bit bigger than thick, so I ruled out any type of romantic relationship. We kept hanging out, a couple times a week turned to several times a week. Then eventually we went on a date and had a great time. I knew that this was different than any other relationship the first time we had a disagreement. There was no yelling or cursing or throwing stuff. Just talking... Two grown folks talking about a problem. That night after make up time ;), I asked her to be my girl.
My relationship with my now fiancee, has had to go through some of the most stressful times I have had so far in my life, but she has been and will always be....
My rock(always there for stability),
My window(opens my eyes to the way life & love can be),
My best friend!
So my final statement is this...

Love is what you feel it is.

Until I met my current girl, I thought I knew what true love was. I'm not saying that what my girl and I have is the definition of love, but it is MY definition of true love...
I hope this helped you and did not offend you in any way

Best of luck with everything!





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