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thank you very much for your reply. it means alot to me.

with regards to the situation, i live in east london and he lives in north west. we are a good 30 miles terms of moving i mean i live with my parents and we are at uni together.
i read somewhere...anger comes from people always thinkin they are right and others are wrong and it spirals out of control so i dont believe a relationship to work if its only one sided.

:( when i used to hear people say relationships are hard and hurtful in a bad situation...i now knw where they were coming from.
i will keep you posted.
for example like today...this is the most ridiculous thing...we was at uni today...and me him and one of girls went to grab a quick bite to eat...we;d left our bags with a mate in the library reassuring them we;d be back in like 20 mins...
he has no shame in talkin to me like an idiot in from if everyone...or moreso shall i say i cant believe no one else can hear hw he talks to me its ridiculous.
he kept saying hurry up and eat hurry upp...when my firends are like saying '';oh hows ur day been hows the work geting on''...i made it threw one sandwich...and he said..''ahh your talking too muchh hurry up''
i made it clear i;d be back in time to get my bag because my laptop was in there...but talkin to me like i had no value i felt hot and like i was going to cry and storm out but i did not intend to make a scene.
so i said id lost my apetitie i cant eat when your rushing me i'll finish it later..and becasue id eaten so quick i felt sick...i just got up and said we can go now or we'll be late...
my girl was like u aint finished eating and as i said i dont want to...he got really angry and followed me out...
so that no one could hear wat he was gna say...he caught up with me...started to argue saying why i did that...and told me to **** o** and called me a ******g sk**.
i ended up crying in the library being supported my my girls who have now realised how i been going thru and putting up with this behaviour for a long time. i miss the days feeling like i had someone..its not even a need...but the pure feeling that i cud enjoy.
ive never felt so low.
hes then text me playing the mum card....i dont even wanna call it that because i feel horrible and selfish...but it seems like i have to tolerate his behaviour even more because of him mum having cancer.
out of all the people right now...i can feel sorry for myself...but i feel most sorry for his mum.
ive told him where i stand with him and if he cant see that....its just too bad. my bad side is that i been told im too nice. :(

im glad to hear she is getting help through DHS...always better to seek help i guess you knw what they say if it dont kill it can only make us strong.if theres any justice in this world...i know i'll be free from this and be with someone who loves me for all my goods and flaws.
thank you for listenin to me...itt means so so much.

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