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Things rarely turn out the way we plan. This is life. You had your time with her but you clearly don't belong together because not only did you guys break up, but she moved to a different country. There's no point in salvaging something that wasn't meant to be. I'm sorry but she is not the only girl out there and clearly she wasn't right for you otherwise you guys would still be together.

Why would you want to be with someone again who keeps stringing you along like this? She is with someone else now, that means she has moved on. The only reason why she is keeping you dangling out there is in case she finds herself suddenly single without any prospects. You would not be her first choice, you would only be a temporary fill in until someone else comes along. She is clearly the type who can't handle being alone and that's why she is keeping you on a string.

You have idealized her and put her in this pedestal where she does not belong. She is treating you like a dog and you're still adoring her and hoping for her to throw you a treat for following her rules. Really? Is that how you want to live your life? Being someone's doormat? You deserve better! You deserve to be with someone who loves you for you and not just her who would pretend to love you because she was lonely. There is a difference and you need to learn this.

She is not worth your time nor your thoughts. She is with someone else and you need to find someone else. Relationships that break up and get back together rarely work out in the end because neither person accepts responsibility for what went wrong the first time and therefore the same problems occur which led to the breakup so they end up fighting again and breaking up again. That's what happens 99% of the time. You won't be in that 1% that makes it, I can already tell because her current behavior toward you by stringing you along while she is with someone else makes it clear what kind of person she is. It's time to cut off contact with her and move on.

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