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My boyfriend, when he gets annoyed by something, he really shows his frustration in an angrily verbal way. And everytime, even if he's not talking to me, more talking to himself, and it has nothing to do with me necessarily. It will make me really depressed.

Like earlier, he was getting mad because he was trying to make a website with some site, and it wasn't working for some reason, and he was getting super frustrated and mad about it and he just verbally expresses his frustration without any tact.

When he's happy, I'm happy, when he's mad, I'm mad, when he's sad, I'm sad.

But that's only part of the problem.

He EASILY gets over his frustration. Like he'll be frustrated and angry for 10 minutes, and then as soon as his problem his solved. You can never tell he was frustrated. He's back to being okay or happy again.

But me... when I get depressed or mad, I stay that way for a long time. It takes me hours or even a whole day to get back to normal. I can't change my emotions as fast as he can. So when his frustration gets me depressed. Then I feel depressed for half or the rest of the day.

I don't know if he has a problem or I have a problem or we both have problems, but how do we fix it?! D:

I would think there's a way to be frustrated without SHOWING your frustration so intensely like he does, and I wish there was a way that I could not let his emotions that have nothing to do with me, not affect me.
[QUOTE=Jmart432;5016073]How does he show his frustration? Does he just yell and curse, or does he throw things or punch the wall? Does he take it out on you? If so, how?[/QUOTE]He just yells and curses. Maybe rarely he'll slam his fist onto some random object, but that's about it. He doesn't take it out on me (even though it feels like it sometimes, but he's not talking to me, he's talking to himself.)





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