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Hi everyone,

This is my first post here and I'm just hoping to get some advice.

So my boyfriends best friend is a total jerk to me. He's been disrespectful and rude since my bf and I started dating 2 1/2 years ago. Some examples of things he's done:

Tried to convince my boyfriend to have a 3some with two girls at a party.
Brought porn mags over to my bf's house and put a pin up poster on his wall of a girl completely naked so I'd see it when I got there
Talk about me behind my back tomy boyfriend and trash me

I got so fed up after trying everything I could think of to get along with him until finally I couldn't stand it anymore and told my boyfriend that this kid is effecting our relationship too much and I'm ready to walk. So my boyfriend explained to his friend that they should just take some space.

Then earlier this year my boyfriend made a snowball of lies to cover up the fact that he went to the club with this kid. The only reason I found out was because his friend posted a picture on Facebook or the two of them at the club captioned 'oops' which was a clear stab at me because he knew I would see it and that my boyfriend lied to me for him.

I just hate the kid so freaking much. And now my bf wants to start going out with him again and I just don't trust it. And worst of all my boyfriend doesn't understand why I care. I explained to him that his friend is extremely rude and disrespectful and he says that if I'm not around his friend then it shouldn't bother him.

The way I see it is if there was someone in my life who made my boyfriend feel bad then I wouldn't wanna be around that person because I love and respect my guy but he just thinks I need to get over it and it shouldn't bother me and he's gonna hang out with whoever he wants because his friend is important to him. I understand that he can hang out with whoever he wants but it hurts me that he doesn't take my feelings into consideration.he says he gets my feelings but he wants to be a little bit selfish because he misses his friend. I just feel so stuck like I just can't win. Help? :(

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