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So my boyfriend recently got a new full time job after being unemployed for about a year. I have been working throughout our whole relationship (2 1/2 years) and was promoted last week. Since he started this job he has put NO time into our relationship. We work opposite hours so when we both had Sunday off we made plans to spend the day together instead he went out with his friend the night before, stayed up all night and slept through the whole day we were supposed to see each other. After blowing me off he called me that might and I was upset because we wouldn't see a Each other for another week. Well the week has gone by and he makes NO effort. No calls no texts nothing and everytime I call him he claims he's busy, in a rush and has to go. I felt so ignored that I finally told him exactly how I felt on the phone saying I don't want to talk to him because I'm the only one trying. So his way of making me feel better is going across town to a guys house (who he's known for one week) and hanging out with him and his 7 friends none of whom my boyfriend even knows and this happened twice in 2 days! I'm so angry that instead of taking 5 minutes to text me or call me he decided hanging out with strangers was more important. And after not texting me or calling me all day I finally call him and he wants to hang out this weekend and do something together!!!!! He claims he has no time but he has time to go across town and play video games and get high and not send me a text saying he loves me?

I hate feeling that he only wants to have a girlfriend when it's convenient for him and his buddies aren't there to hang out with. I miss him and wanna see him because it's been so long but I don't think he deserves it. I also hate that he wants to be able To go off and do whatever he wants then call me up 3 days later to hang out and everything be peachy.

What do you guys think? I feel like he doesn't really care and that if I say I don't want to hang out with him this weekend then he'll go to his friends and not think twice about me. He'll win either way. I've tried to not call him and text him to get my point across but I end up caving because I'm worried about where he is and what he's doing and why he doesn't care enough to fight for me. I'm so fed up I can't even think straight! Helppppppp!

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