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Hi all!
I am a penpal to a first love I had about twenty plus years ago... and....
I write back and forth with him on emails.. about stuff...He recently answered a question for me about when he used to be "controlling". He says that it was true that he USED to be that way..and with me..but, he is no longer like this and was not like this in his other relationships! (Is this a way for him to say "I am STILL controlling" and I am pushing this right back onto you, and I am in huge denial??) I read that guys who control are like this.. what do you think?

I am only a penpal with him..I am married and happy but, I wanted to be connected in a positive way to some of my ex boyfriend's just as a friend nothing more! I still like them as human beings!


Thanks

nightowl2 :confused: :confused: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Actually I am now NOT being his friend anymore... just a contact..we have mutual friends.. I basically let him know that we are too different to be friends.. it is NOT meshing... He seems "bothered" by me..so, I am not really wanting to write to him anymore! It's a good thing to stop! Phew!!
[QUOTE=nightowl2;5149552]Actually I am now NOT being his friend anymore... just a contact..we have mutual friends.. I basically let him know that we are too different to be friends.. it is NOT meshing... He seems "bothered" by me..so, I am not really wanting to write to him anymore! It's a good thing to stop! Phew!![/QUOTE]

good for you....he's probably bothered by his inability to control you anymore.....he hasn't changed....there is no need to talk to him





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