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May 2, 2013
Looking for some advice or maybe just to vent, not sure.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years. We welcomed a daughter together in December of 2011. I work Part time @ home and am working on my masters degree. My boyfriend works full time. In March I found out that he was texting and calling another women. I found text messages back and forth between the two of them on his phone. I took my daughter and left the house for a few days. I came back home to talk with him and found a very teary eyed man telling me to give him another chance and that he had already called her to break things off. He swore to me it was just mostly texting and nothing more. We had a long dissuasion about what we both needed to work on with our relationship. We even planned a weekend get away to help get us started in the right direction as we had not really had much alone time together since welcoming the baby. I agreed to give him another chance.
This past Monday morning I saw his cell phone laying on the floor and figured what the hell I'm gonna take a look. Sure enough more texts from the same women. This time he had the name on the phone under a guys name (I think he put her number on a guys name this way if I looked at his contacts I wouldn't suspect anything.) I immediately woke his *** up and threw him out and informed him not come back. We've talked a little but over the phone and through texts about our daughter and him coming over to get his things. I am just at a loss. Sometimes i'm fine and sometimes I break down crying out of nowhere. I have never been in this situation before. My previous relationships have been mutual break ups, never for cheating. I don't know whether I feel so much anxiety over not knowing why this continued to happen. I also don't know how I am supposed to move on from this man when I'm going to have to see him often due to sharing time with out daughter. I just feel so lost right now. I hope that I am not making the wrong decision in ending things. My heart says one thing but my head says another...just so confused and hurt..and really ****** off. Any advice, suggestions or help is greatly appreciated. Any advice on dealing with a break up and having a small child is helpful as well.

Thank You.

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