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Re: Hopeless
Jul 10, 2013
Hi, Ladybud made some good possible solutions to your situation, about you living in the city with your son and getting child support from your husband. Also it is very curious to me that your parents are not involved with their grandson and I think there is more to this story concerning that. I have seen the most hardened people you could imagine just melt at the thought of their grandchildren.Also what is your husbands point of view living with a wife who does not love him and wishing he was not alive? All we really know about him is that he is provincial, boring and a good father.You can't say he is oblivious to all this, he is not stupid. It is too bad we do not have his point of view, how he handles a situation in which he he is involved in a loveless marriage.What did he say about you getting a place in the city? Did he agree because he felt it made you happy? If you will indulge me one more question......Honesty, have you ever really been in love or have you thought you were only to turn sour on it. I am not trying to infer anything rather just trying to sort things out.....All the best.
Re: Hopeless
Jul 14, 2013
[QUOTE=lenvegas;5197845]Hi, Ladybud made some good possible solutions to your situation, about you living in the city with your son and getting child support from your husband. Also it is very curious to me that your parents are not involved with their grandson and I think there is more to this story concerning that. I have seen the most hardened people you could imagine just melt at the thought of their grandchildren.Also what is your husbands point of view living with a wife who does not love him and wishing he was not alive? All we really know about him is that he is provincial, boring and a good father.You can't say he is oblivious to all this, he is not stupid. It is too bad we do not have his point of view, how he handles a situation in which he he is involved in a loveless marriage.What did he say about you getting a place in the city? Did he agree because he felt it made you happy? If you will indulge me one more question......Honesty, have you ever really been in love or have you thought you were only to turn sour on it. I am not trying to infer anything rather just trying to sort things out.....All the best.[/QUOTE]

My husband is somewhat supportive of me getting a place in the city, but I am paying for it and trying to make enough money to keep it. He knows I'm miserable and wants a happy marriage. My parents are not interested in me and therefore not interested in my son. They never wanted kids, and my husband's parents are the same way. Basically, I feel I don't have the support to get a divorce, even in the city, my field is very unstable and I don't think I could do it with my son and no help. As to your last question, I've never been in love, thought I was and then woke up to the reality. I





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