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Just found out 5 days ago that I have herpes. I haven't gotten the blood tests back yet, so I don't know what type. However, the cultures came back positive. I told my boyfriend as soon as it was confirmed and at first he was supportive. Naturally, he was in shock, but he said that he'd been reading up on it because he had noticed a couple bumps on his penis the same day that I started feeling sick. He said he understood that it can sometimes takes years or decades for it to manifest itself, so there was no reason for trying to blame each other. He insisted that he had been faithful to me (we'd been together 7 years) and I assured him that I had also been faithful. Then I didn't hear from him for a couple of days. When I finally got him to talk to me today he said he couldn't go on with our relationship anymore because the thought of the disease or of having sex or touching me is repulsive to him. Then he started talking like it was my fault because I had such a bad outbreak and he only had a couple bumps and they're already gone so it can't be him. I told him again that he needs to get checked, but he's in such denial. Needless to say, we broke up. I guess I found out just what kind of person he is. I guess it's a good thing we didn't get married; I don't know that he would have stayed with me even if we were. So now, I have this horrendous disease and I have to face it alone.





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