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There's nothing for you to do. When you meet his parents, especially his dad, don't say anything, don't bring it up. It's not your situation to deal with. And your bf sounds like he has already dealt with his feelings about it and has come to some sort of an understanding with his dad, so the matter is closed.

Maybe he just wanted you to know. But be very careful. Boys who grow up being abused tend to turn into abusers themselves and the cycle continues forever as they become an example for their children, etc. If he starts exhibiting any kind of controlling, paranoid, or disrespectful behavior toward you at any point then you know he has become another statistic and it's probably best to move on. But if he hasn't done any of that yet then just keep your guard up and make sure you're very aware of his treatment of you at all times.
[QUOTE=Kszan;5243852]There's nothing for you to do. When you meet his parents, especially his dad, don't say anything, don't bring it up. It's not your situation to deal with. And your bf sounds like he has already dealt with his feelings about it and has come to some sort of an understanding with his dad, so the matter is closed.

Maybe he just wanted you to know. But be very careful. Boys who grow up being abused tend to turn into abusers themselves and the cycle continues forever as they become an example for their children, etc. If he starts exhibiting any kind of controlling, paranoid, or disrespectful behavior toward you at any point then you know he has become another statistic and it's probably best to move on. But if he hasn't done any of that yet then just keep your guard up and make sure you're very aware of his treatment of you at all times.[/QUOTE]

I had no intention to? I'm not an insensitive idiot I respect his feelings and would not want to create a bad relationship with his father when he's obviously forgiven his dad.

And he's a very kind person, to me and everyone he knows. He's never been violent with me physically or verbally, he's very kind and calmly explains things to me even when we do fight. I really don't think he will repeat the actions of his father, but I will be careful if you feel like I should.





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