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Angry boyfriend
Oct 2, 2014
My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 2 years is increasingly getting angry. He seems so hateful towards everyone, he says things like "I hate everyone" and when he sees another guy flipping him off he says "I could snap his neck". His language is filled with vulgar words and obscenities. My boyfriend is a big guy, he goes gym a lot so there's no doubt about if he could snap necks or not. I feel like he needs to prove it though? He's the type of guy who doesn't show or even understand affection or romance. At the start I was pretty upset about this but I've gotten use to him unable to show love. But now it's gotten to the point when all he does is show me hate. Any little thing I say could tick him off. I could be joking, having a good laugh and then suddenly he gets so serious and starts accusing me of things I don't see the point of arguing about. He says really hurtful things to me like "This is why I didn't want a girlfriend", "Alright you know what next time I blanket-blank promise you I'm going to do something". He always shouts and gets so hyped up and angry. He snaps at his family, he left all his mates because they've put him off. Don't get me wrong, apart from the anger stuff he treats me good. I know he would never physically hurt me. But emotionally? It kills me. We're fighting so often now over nothing. I would say one word, and he will hold that word against me. He would change the meaning of what I say and just make it out like it's my fault. I go to sleep crying and he turns to me and tells me to shut up. I told him we need to communicate better and he says I rather just not communicate with you at all. He gives me aggression and hate when all I need is softness, kindness and love. I'm so close to giving up and walking away. But I just need to know if there's a way to handle this? I'm so desperate for help. I just want us to be happy. Leaving him would be the last resort, I want to know a way to help him. He also refuses to get help, he knows he's angry and it's like he proud of being so angry and hateful.

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