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Although I am in my 40s I have only been in 2 relationships. My first was with my husband of 13 years - it ended in divorce. I am in my second relationship and I have mixed feelings.

Sometimes I love my boyfriend, and sometimes I want to be all alone (single but not dating).

My boyfriend and I get along really well, but he is going through some financial troubles and he depends on me a lot. He and I have discussed this and I know he feels terrible about it. I don't think he's using me, because I know the situation he is in.

Sometimes I want him to leave, but he has no place to go. I don't like being responsible for him. Life would be much easier for me if I were alone.

But sometimes I realize that I really do love him. We get along well. I like his family and friends, and he likes mine. We have similar interests. We rarely argue. He helps a lot around the home. I just wish he could pull his weight.

I don't know if I should stay with him or kick him out. I go back and forth with this in my mind all the time. Should I give it a little more time?

If I kick him out I'm sure I will regret it for the rest of my life. I would miss him and I would feel really guilty. I don't know where he would go or what he would do.

But it would be so much easier to be alone.

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