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Before I go any futher, please know i LOVE my boyfriend with my whole heart and one day we plan on getting married.

However, the one and only issues i have with him is that when he goes out with his buddies he never comes home until the next day. We live together and i wake up in the morning having no idea where he is or if he is even okay as he doesnt text or call to say where he is.

I am absolutely fed up with this. We have been together for a year and this has happened at least 10 times. I know when he is out he is doing drugs and doesnt wan't to come home because I am not okay with him doing drugs. But to not even call or message to say where he is seems SO DISRESPECTFUL when i would NEVER do this to him. All i want is a "Hey babe, im staying at **** house, will be home in the morning" but he cant even seem to do this.

So today I have decided to put my foot down and I am going to give him a taste of his own medicine. Usually I get upset and tell him what he's doing is not okay and to let me know where he is and when he will be home, but today I am going to ignore him. I am leaving the house and not coming home tonight and not answering his calls or texts. I am turning off my phone as he does to me.

I am at a loss and don't know what else to do? I love him so much and he is my best friend and lover. 99% of the time we are perfect, this is the one thing he does that is just not okay with it.

Is what i'm doing crossing the line or do i need to do this? He doesnt understand how he makes me feel and i've tried everything else.

NOTE: He is 100% not cheating on me, I know this for sure. So please dont read that and assume this because this is not the case.
i am going to go to the university to study. he has hockey at 9pm so wont be home again until i am asleep.

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