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My boyfriend
Feb 2, 2015
Hi everyone,

I'm at the point where I'm emotionally drained and don't know what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. At the beginning, we spent a lot of time together. I'd stay over his house quite often. We'd go places together all the time. I'd see him all the time. He's never been the best with his phone (ie. texting, phone calls) so I always get stressed over communicating with him when I'm not with him. We used to have sex all the time and talk on the phone every night after work. He used to always pay whenever we went out for food. I pay a lot now. I tell myself it is because he has a lot of expenses (more than me), but sometimes it's just not fair... He's involved with my family. He helps my dad out. He went on our family vacation just this past December.

Now, we hardly have sex. He's always tired from work. Granted he has a different, much more demanding job than he had before when we were having sex all the time. If we do have sex, he's lazy and makes me go on top...all the time. He hardly kisses me anymore. It makes me so upset. He'll say I love you back sometimes. He still calls me baby. We just don't see each other that often. Maybe once a weekend or once every couple weekends. I have to beg him to call me so we can talk on the phone. I always tell him my plans or what's going on -- that's not the case with him. I need to beg to find out. It's like I care so much and I get this feeling he just doesn't. I tell myself I love him. I do. Or, do I just not love myself... When we are together and things are good, they are great. But sometimes we are together, we fight. Mostly because he is in a bad mood, and I get upset. I cry all the time. He hates it. I can't help it. When things are bad between us, everything is bad for me. I know it's not heathy....I just can't get myself to truly accept that. He says he loves me...I just don't know.

My life is him. My social life...his friends are my friends. I just can't imagine not being with him.

I really don't know how to put my feelings into words. Everything in my head is more than is written here, I can't express it all.

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