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... Love" is a choice and an action. Whether it's your mom or your significant other, to love someone means to do something for someone else to give THEM the experience of being loved. ... (16 replies)
... For me, I think being in love with someone as opposed to just loving them is when you are willing to meld with them. I mean, you become someone other than who you are when you are alone and single. ... (16 replies)
... I agree... being in love and to love someone are two very different things. You love your parents, your family, your friends, but you don't fall in love with them... ... (16 replies)

... Love is more of a platonic state of caring deeply for someone, whereas being IN love is a romantic, exciting extention of love. Both can fade and both can last. ... (16 replies)
... You can love someone from you parents to your cat. But being in love I think is more extreme. Some people refer to it as the honeymoon phase. It's a roller coaster ride of physical and emotional release. ... (16 replies)
... But it wasn't until I stood at the back of church and saw him actually standing at the front of the church that I fell totally truly in love with him!! ... (16 replies)
... That is very well said. Everyone does have their own definition of love. Some people confuse love with obsessions. Maybe they have never been "in love". Some just obsess over a person and call that loving them when it isn't. ... (16 replies)
... I think another thing to consider is that with Family, we don't choose them. We inherit them. We love them because they've always been their for us, helped us, etc. but we never chose these people. ... (16 replies)
... Well, I think the difference is pretty obvious, but if you're asking because someone gave you this line "I love you but I'm not in love with you," all you should hear is "I'm not in love with you. ... (16 replies)
... I will add that I Loved my ex husband but was not in love with him, I "TRIED" to love him like a woman should love her husband, but I couldn't it was not fair to HIM or to myself, I ended up hurting him. ... (16 replies)
... I love my family but am not in love with them. ... (16 replies)
... Minnesota Bob, that is so true. You don't choose your family and they are usually their for us. They hurt us in different ways. But when the person you are in love with hurts you, it is a different kind of hurt and it hurts in such a different kind a way that a "family hurt". ... (16 replies)
... You are right and people do confuse the two and I have notice posters have confused me too :D I am naturally blond so I am alaways confused. ;) (16 replies)
... Love to me is just a term rather than a word. There is really no true definition of it because everyone will have there own opinion on what it means. To be honest I am still trying to seeks the true meaning of the word but I use it when I have deep thoughts or feeling of a person. (16 replies)
... When my b/f walks through the door I still get the butterflies. Or when I drive to his house, I am still anxious and excited about seeing him. We live an hour apart. He says he gets them too. His kisses, his touches give me butterflies. So I know how you feel. there is nothing better than spending time with him. (16 replies)
... cause they sound nice or because other people believe them. It's certainly understandable why you don't feel like you'll believe that you have another chance at being happy and loved until it actually happens. ... (174 replies)
... n people a little older, posting here about their first loves and how they are destined to be together forever, soulmates, etc., despite all the obvious problems in their relationships. It's not that I didn't have the same unrealistic fantasies about my first few boyfriends, but deep down I knew that the timing was all off. ... (17 replies)
... up, my boyfriend and I are back together. Well things are going great with us now and we are talking about marriage and getting a house together in the next year or two. ... (6 replies)
... haha. i was like that with my ex!! We lived together for 5 years but everytime I looked at him was like the first time i'd ever seen him. He was SO georgous - inside and out - i just was crazy about him. When we were out, a few people asked if we'd just started dating coz we were so into each other and would be shocked when we told them "no, we've lived together for 4... (16 replies)
... What are your thoughts? (16 replies)




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