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... n't sure about things, and it wouldn't be fair to this new girl to just dump her to get back with me, because she was there for him helping him through his grief over our breakup. ... (19 replies)
... im not blaming myself anymore. i use to blame myself for everything. even some of my friends got impatient with me and started to say it was all my fault and that i should accept and learn from it. ... (20 replies)
... listen to cityigrl...she is right and i agree with everything she has had to say DONT blame yourself hun, none of this is your fault he is the jerk who didnt realise what he had with you dont worry, dont blame yourself, calm down x x x (160 replies)

... were in denial, so it might seem like you lost him forever. I remember feeling the same way and blaming myself for maybe being 'too emotional' over the breakup and pushing him away by crying and asking him questions and wanting answers, etc. ... (160 replies)
... Those are just some things off the top of my head. Yet, I'm blaming MYSELF for things that went wrong in our relationship. ... (9 replies)
Help please
Feb 21, 2006
... Please be kind to yourself and concentrate your efforts on you! I had a bad breakup a while ago and was really hurting and blaming myself. My sister gave me the advice I gave you and it really helped me get out of my funk. It was hard ... ... (443 replies)
... closed up. He had NO idea how to talk or communicate in a relationship. I was the first one after his wife he only did what he was used to doing for over 45 years. Yes, just like you said, my ex drove me crazy too. I got to the place where I didn't recognize myself either...... ... (11 replies)
... hold grudges against this, obviously, but he did not cheat. As far as I know, he didn't lie. Just circumstantially, we hurt eachother. And somehow I ended up blaming myself that we couldn't work, and missing him so so much. ... (23 replies)
Mar 18, 2006
... ck together showed me how so not worth it he was and how i should stop wondering "what if" because i had done just about everything to win him back...ive stopped blaming myself because even if my behaviour pushed him away to begin with, then what i did after the breakup would have won him back... ... (25 replies)
... ll always stay close friends and that he or she will always care deeply about the ex, then avoid contact once the breakup is finalized. ... (300 replies)
Help please
Feb 21, 2006
... k. but none of this will come true. its all reality and altho ive accepted it, its bloody hard to deal with...its so hard not to cry...its so hard trying to pick myself up from the mud... ... (443 replies)
... dwelling on the past, blaming yourself for the breakup, and wondering what he's thinking will only cause you extraneous misery and delay your healing process. ... (74 replies)
I am crushed...
Oct 20, 2005
... Hi Scotty, not to jump in and change the topic, but for what it's worth, I really don't think you should pursue your ex any further. From what I remember, she's the one you've had difficulty getting off your mind for quite some time now...she's had plenty of time to shape up and make her interest known if she had any real intentions of reconciling with you. I gather she was... (30 replies)

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